Nine sex questions women have

　　Question: Are we having too little sex?

　　The survey shows that the average number of people in the world who have sex per year is 103 times, and the Chinese have 96 times. If you care too much about this data, the answer is probably "yes". In fact, the key question is not how often to do it, but why it takes so long to do it. In these days when we are stuffed to the brim and out of breath, the reduction in the frequency of sex actually has little to do with sex itself.

　　Question: Do other people take longer to have sex than we do?

　　The sexual descriptions in pornographic movies or erotic novels can be regarded as a "sex marathon". If we compare it to this, the men around us may be Premature ejaculation , but the truth is that the individual differences in sexual intercourse time are very large, about 2-15 minutes.

　　If the intercourse time is relatively short, you cannot conclude that you have premature ejaculation. Consider removing the pressure from your body first. In addition, sometimes changing positions can also help so that the stimulation to the penis is not too strong. In terms of age, younger men will finish faster, but as they grow older, their experience and skills have improved, and they are better at controlling time.

　　Question: The clitoris is too small, does this affect orgasm?

　　If someone says to you, “You have a small nose, it will affect your ability to smell. ”You will definitely laugh at his stupidity after hearing this. The same goes for the clitoris, size has little effect on the ability to experience orgasm. The clitoris becomes congested, swollen, and significantly enlarged after sexual arousal. a lot of female They need to stimulate the clitoris to reach orgasm, so they think that orgasm is only related to the clitoris. In fact, when the climax comes, Uterus The vagina, vagina, and the entire pelvic muscles will go through a series of rhythmic contractions, so there is no need to focus on the clitoris.

　　Many scholars believe that the largest sexual organ is the brain, which is especially important for women.

　　Question: Is it shameful to fantasize about other men during sex?

　　Sexual fantasies are very common. Experts point out that when you fantasize about a handsome guy during sex, if you forcefully drive him out of your mind, the quality of sex will undoubtedly be compromised. Especially for some people, sexual fantasies can help increase sexual pleasure and help you discover what excites you most so you can try new ways in your sexual life.

　　Question: Are private parts really that important in foreplay?

　　The private parts of men and women are extremely rich in nerve Tips, stroking will definitely help stimulate sexual desire. Sex therapy experts suggest that during sex, both men and women should gently caress these extremely sensitive areas as if they were babies, and the movements must not be rough.

　　Question: Does trimming pubic hair make men more interested in women?

　　There is no conclusion on whether this is good or bad. Some men feel that they feel better during sex after shaving their pubic hair, while others feel that there is no difference. Generally speaking, men are more or less fresh and exciting, and may be more willing to try new ways of having sex.

　　Question: Why does my vagina make a fart-like sound during sex?

　　Vaginal blowing, also called“ blowing ”, is because the penis presses air into the vagina during sexual intercourse. When these gases are discharged, it will make a sound similar to fart. This moment is embarrassing, especially when you are happy for the first time.

　　There used to be a view that this showed that women’s vaginal relaxation , but now some experts have put forward a new point of view. If vaginal blowing occurs, it at least means that the process of sexual life is pleasurable, because this situation usually occurs when the vagina is very lubricated.

　　Question: Why is it never wet enough down there?

　　Insufficient moisturization is also a problem that many women find confusing. This is a common problem for women who are going through menopause because estrogen levels in the body are declining. Appropriate estrogen supplementation or the use of lubricants is a simple and feasible solution. If a young woman encounters this problem, it may be that she is not excited enough or has not been excited for long enough. However, it can also occur when there is inflammation of the vagina, and certain medications such as birth control pills can also cause a decrease in discharge.

　　Question: Why do I cry after orgasm?

　　Orgasm is a process of great psychological and physical release. Different people will express themselves in different ways, including moaning, screaming, and even crying. If you are extremely happy and relaxed mentally, it is not surprising at all to cry. Don't be embarrassed, this at least shows one thing, your sex is not boring at all.