What men fear most

　　humiliated in public

　　Just like Zidane desperately headbutted Materazzi in the World Cup final, men must protect themselves, their families, and their family's image and reputation no matter what. What motivates them the most is nerve There is nothing worse than destroying one's reputation, it can break even the strongest man's mind, a blow that no amount of money can cure.

　　Regardless of whether men feel safe in their situation, they will worry about their own safety; they are often afraid of looking less than perfect, like a fool, or stupid and stupid; they are not afraid of stuttering when speaking formally, accidentally showing timidity when chatting, being criticized by the boss in public during the morning meeting, or having their pants pulled. A faulty chain, an own goal on the football field, etc. are not big problems for men. They are just mistakes or stupid mistakes. However, if their reputation is insulted in public, it makes them embarrassed. This is absolutely unacceptable, and they must stand up to protect their reputation.

　　Son and father

　　The grief of losing a father is the time when a man is most likely to become brooding and think about his own death. Suddenly becoming a parent is actually a heavy burden. For most men, this is an important turning point in life when they think about what their fathers have done for them and what else their fathers have failed at? They then think about how they can be better fathers and more successful men, which means they have to face their own shortcomings. For a man who is deeply in grief and shock, they do face many problems. He deserves more opportunities and freedom to go his own way, his own way.

　　Troubles caused by the body. Women are often shy to show off their bodies, especially when they think they are not satisfied with their figure. In fact, men are more concerned about how women view their body image: whether their shoulders, pectoralis major, hips, arms, etc. have enough male feature. Men are fully aware of whether they are too fat, too thin, too hairy, or too smelly, so on the one hand, men are eager to peek into women's bodies, but they are full of anxiety when revealing their own bodies.

　　make money for the sake of making money

　　Although men are not necessarily the hunters of the family (the role played by men in the nomadic life era) or the sole source of the economy, they always subconsciously believe that they are the backbone of the family and are responsible for the wealth and happiness of the family. When men lose money, or cannot earn enough money, or need to beg for money, this is undoubtedly a spiritual disaster. They will feel that they are completely trapped by life and have nothing to do from now on.

　　Whether it is falling out of love, losing, being locked up in stocks, being unsatisfactory at work or even being fired, failure is something that men cannot tolerate, but there is a big difference between possible failure and complete failure. A man may be able to control his emotions after losing a game or after a conversation breaks down in a bar, but men are all proud guys and never want anyone to surpass them or deliberately block their way. This means that others have already taken advantage of them and seized the opportunity. Those people will inevitably gloat about their misfortune 。

　　Beautiful women and sexual relations

　　Among the many things that make men feel intimidated or threatened, beautiful women are one. It can be said that beautiful women have the power to attract their attention no matter when and where they are, such as at work, in a bookstore, or while driving. Although the power of beauty is short-lived, it is always a challenge. Men are all excited in front of beautiful women, which inevitably makes them do some stupid things. When caught by his wife while looking at other women, she often suddenly finds that her husband's eyes suddenly wander and become glazed over, staring intently at the beauty next to him.

　　be a crappy lover

　　Of course, men all hope that they can be heroes in bed, able to fight when they are called upon, and able to win when they fight, so that their women can fully enjoy sexual pleasure. Men are afraid that women will say "you bore me to death", or that they will not leave any impression on the other person or not get the satisfaction they deserve. While this isn’t necessarily the man’s responsibility, he certainly feels guilty and blames himself for it. It would be even more sad for a man if a woman faked her orgasm, so female Let men know what they want, and then they will know how to successfully complete the task.