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What to do with a virgin for the first time

Asked by:Alyssa

Asked on:Mar 29, 2026 04:38 AM

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  • Evangeline Evangeline

    Mar 29, 2026

      A virgin's first time, accompanied by the rupture of the hymen and vaginal pain, is unforgettable both physically and psychologically. So right male For me, this is a test of whether you are a good husband and a good boyfriend. The editor of 99 has summarized some of the most suitable sexual positions for the first time, hoping it will be helpful to you who want to become a real woman and man.

      The first choice is psychologically, you have to give her enough comfort. Love her and comfort her. Tell her this is an essential step in becoming a real woman. If she says no, don't force it. Not to mention the stupid thing of "raping" her. Not only does this hurt her, but you get no pleasure from it, only vent.

      So when she shyly agrees, what position do you use to make love? In fact, there is no fixed law. But from love and care female Considering the angle (because the pain of piercing the hymen is inevitable), it is recommended to adopt the following method: the woman lies on her back on the edge of the bed, raising her legs high. The man stands front-on between the woman's legs under the bed. This method of making love has the following advantages: The penis can pierce the hymen with the slightest force.

      Stop there the first time, no more violent thrusts. Girls will only have pain. Wait until next time. You can look at Malthus on this. In Garcia's "Love in the Time of Cholera", the male protagonist in the wedding night, in order to eliminate his wife's fear of having sex, deliberately let her admire his penis for a night without having sex.

      Very experienced lovers can also use this method when making love. Another advantage of this method is that it is easier for men to exert force. This posture can also be appropriately changed, for example: putting the woman's legs on the man's shoulders; or the man clamping the woman's legs with his arms; in this way, the penis stimulates the vagina somewhat, so the feeling is also different.

      Another special emphasis is that in this way men can clearly see their penis entering and exiting the vagina, which feels really wonderful. In order for a woman to feel this pleasure, she can hold a mirror and place it on the side of her body to watch, which is very helpful for women to reach orgasm.

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