How to treat female masturbation

　　female Will masturbating hurt yourself?

　　Masturbation is a supplement to a lack of sexual life. For women, it is one of the important ways to understand themselves and enhance their sexiness. However, according to a June 7 report by "About," a well-known American gender website, many women have doubts: Why do their sexual feelings decrease after masturbating? Is this related to their use of sex tools? Will they become sexually numb after a long time?

　　Kaori Silverberg, a registered sex therapist in the United States, pointed out that women’s fear and rejection of masturbation are far greater than male . “Many people have been taught the wrong idea that there is a price to pay for great sexual feelings. This bias exists even among sex therapists. For example, Helen Singer Kaplan, one of the founders of modern sex therapy, said that women's long-term use of sex tools may lead to their inability to obtain satisfaction in normal sexual life. ”

　　However, in 1996, the results of a study focusing on women and sex tools were published in a pioneering academic journal in the United States. The results show that there are many ways for women to masturbate, which are used interchangeably. “Less than 10% of women said that they would not be able to achieve orgasm without the assistance of tools. ”

　　Kaori Silverberg said that in clinical On the Internet, it is true that women will experience numbness and discomfort in the clitoris and vagina after masturbating. This is related to the stimulation time and method, but they are all temporary. “Sexual organs have a very strong 'self-healing' ability. Unless there is severe trauma, it is difficult to destroy feelings, so there is no need to worry too much about it. ”

　　Relevant knowledge: How to distinguish inappropriate masturbation

　　Moderate masturbation behavior is the natural result of personal sexual energy accumulation and sexual excitement, rather than masturbating to induce sexual excitement or deal with worries and fill emptiness. Such as long-term separated couples, unmarried young men and women, some disabled people who are not suitable for marriage, chronic sexually transmitted diseases People, widowers, widows and other adults, because they do not have a normal sexual life, after a period of intermission, even if there is no sexual stimulation, in their own bodies nerve Sexual desire will also be produced under the action of endocrine and endocrine hormones. If this sexual desire is suppressed for a long time, it may make people feel restless and unable to sleep at night.

　　Masturbation driven by this accumulated sexual energy is inevitable and appropriate. It not only relieves suppressed sexual desire and sexual impulses and makes them happy physically and mentally, but also enables them to study and work with full energy.

　　When encountering dissatisfaction, pressure, frustration, loneliness, etc., it is inappropriate to try to use masturbation to stimulate sexual excitement to fill the emptiness in the soul. It can easily lead to a vicious cycle of self-blame, guilt, anxiety, depression, etc. after masturbation. Therefore, whether the psychological effect after masturbation is masturbation or self-blame does not depend on the behavior itself, but depends on the motivation or purpose of the behavior.

　　To control masturbation: firstly, don’t expect any special medicine to quit immediately as soon as you take it, but rely on your own will; secondly, there must be a process. It is difficult to quit masturbation immediately because of frequent masturbation. You can achieve the goal by gradually reducing the frequency of masturbation. In addition, try to watch as few media materials with pornographic content as possible, and seek professional consultation if necessary.