What should couples pay attention to on their first night?

　　How to avoid heavy bleeding when seeing red on the first night. When a man has sex for the first time on the wedding night, when a man's penis is inserted into the vagina, the hymen is often broken, causing a tear, causing a small amount of bleeding and slight pain. For most brides, this does not need to be dealt with.

　　The hymen of some brides is too thick, or the hole in the hymen is too small, or the man is impatient, rough, or uses too much force during sex. Occasionally, the hymen will be severely torn, and the crack can even extend to the base of the vagina, causing a complete rupture and laceration of the vaginal wall, causing obvious pain or heavy bleeding to the woman.

　　Once heavy bleeding occurs, don't be nervous. You can immediately fill the vaginal opening with some soft and clean toilet paper or gauze, and put on menstrual wear or close-fitting and elastic shorts to stop the bleeding. You can also use clean gauze to move the pad and press your fingers on the bleeding area. Apply slight pressure for a few minutes, and the bleeding will usually stop. However, if the bleeding still continues after such treatment (observe whether the packed gauze continues to bleed out), you should remove it in time. Hospital Suture the local wound to stop bleeding as soon as possible.

　　Reminder: Sometimes female If the hymen is thick or the hole in the hymen is too small, or the man has rough sexual intercourse, the hymen may rip and bleed more. The most severe cases not only cause large tears in the hymen, but also cause lacerations on the walls of the labia minora, leading to massive bleeding.

　　Precautions for couples on their first night

　　Of course it is good to be satisfied with your first and first few sex life after marriage. But there are also those who are not very satisfied with their life, because newlyweds often lack knowledge about sex, and they are new to each other and are prone to nervousness, shyness and fear. It is normal for them to have a poor sex life. However, it’s best to enjoy your wedding night. Specifically, we should pay attention to the following points:

　　1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

　　On your wedding night, both you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and sexual desire of both men and women. healthy。

　　2. Take good contraceptive measures

　　If both men and women do not want to have a child immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

　　3. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen 　

　　After the hymen is ruptured, if there is some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding, you should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sexual intercourse to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

　　4. Treat prematurely correctly ejaculation 　

　　During sexual intercourse for the first time, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. For this situation you should be forgiven, this is not Premature ejaculation , with the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will return to normal quickly.

　　5. Cooperate closely and be considerate to each other

　　When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, you can try a few more times. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.