How to overcome sexual addiction with hypersexuality

　　I am 35 years old, have a successful career and a happy family, but I have an unspeakable problem, that is, I cannot resist the temptation of the opposite sex. I used to think that I was born to be a playboy. After Tiger Woods’ “Car Crash Gate”, I passed media reports, I know that I probably suffer from the same psychological condition as him disease。
　　
　　Yesterday, I met a girl on a business trip. While I was having sex at night, my son called me and asked me what I was doing. I heard on the phone receiver that my wife was learning to sing along with the TV. I ran out of bed and went to the bathroom to answer the phone. I saw myself in the mirror. My hair was gone, my belly was fat and loose, my buttocks were severely sagging, and I looked very embarrassed. I cursed in my heart, you are so fucking embarrassed.
　　
　　i used to Dream Seeing myself abandoned by my wife in the mountains, she said it was my punishment. In the dream, I was already gray-haired, but she was still young and beautiful. In fact, I am very attached to my wife mentally and like children very much. We even considered having another child. If she found out that I was such a person, she would leave me without hesitation and take the children away. If that happens, my life will be a mess. It was hard for me to imagine developing a marriageable partner among the girls I had one-night stands or several-night stands with, and I had absolutely no desire to marry them.
　　
　　I was excited before doing it, but regretted, depressed, and empty after doing it. This is how I felt about this matter. Please tell me, how can I get rid of "sex addiction"?
　　
　　Lucas：
　　
　　Tiger Woods has disappeared. It is said that he is hiding in a five-star hotel. While waiting heartbrokenly for his wife to take away his son and share his money, he seeks help from a psychiatrist to get rid of his "sex addiction". The practical significance of this bloody sports and entertainment incident is that many Chinese men have learned a new term - "sex addiction." Any behavior, once it reaches the level of psychology, will become ambiguous and ethical.
　　
　　It's not that they are carefree or irresponsible, but that they are mentally ill. Since for mental illness As for the patient, he has legal immunity for killing and stealing. How can you expect him to know when to restrain himself? If we really discuss it, we might even bring out more outrageous details such as the lack of maternal love in childhood or the twists and turns of the first sexual experience, to prove that it is not his fault that a man has reached this point, but it is fate playing tricks on others.
　　
　　Your letter was so sincere and touching that I almost sympathized with you, and I was even prepared to act as a free lobbyist if one day the matter was revealed, telling your wife the helplessness and confusion of Ximen Qing and Woods.