Seven times when it is not advisable to live as a couple

　　1. 11 o'clock in the middle of the night is not a good time

　　The famous American gender magazine "Red Book" surveyed 2,500 people female A survey found that for most wives, their husbands are reluctant to go to bed. sleep , or asking to be "tender" when she is sleepy will arouse strong resentment from the wife. Therefore, eleven or twelve o'clock in the middle of the night is not a time for sexual intercourse for many wives.

　　The survey showed that 46% of women said that they would refuse their husband's sexual needs from time to time just because "the other party brought it up at the wrong time."

　　There are many reasons for "sexual absence". For example, when people are in a bad mood, their sexual desire is likely to decrease temporarily. If the lover reluctantly copes with it, not only will it not arouse pleasure, but it will also easily lead to sexual indifference and damage the relationship between the couple. “Especially if the woman is tired but has to cope with it reluctantly, it is easy to have aversion to sexual life, which may lead to sexual frigidity or sexual aversion over time. ”

　　To solve such sexual disharmony, on the one hand, the wife should take the initiative to communicate with her husband and explain how tired she is. She can also directly tell him, "If you go to bed earlier, I think we will have more time to linger." On the other hand, sex can be scheduled on weekends that are less busy, so that your wife doesn’t have to worry.

　　2. Have sex about 1 and a half hours after meals

　　After eating, the gastrointestinal tract requires energy to digest and absorb food, so the blood supply in the gastrointestinal tract increases, and the blood supply to other parts of the body will decrease accordingly, which will affect male Erection and normal sexual receptivity. In addition, if you drink a lot of alcohol during a meal, most women and some men will experience a decrease in sexual desire, which is not conducive to sexual life.

　　Americanness healthy Expert Oscar? McHenry pointed out that for men, maintaining a strong and long-lasting erection during sex consumes a lot of energy and requires the cooperation of multiple organs. Among them, testosterone is very important, it can arouse male sexual desire and help achieve erection. A greasy, unhealthy diet will greatly inhibit the secretion of testosterone. Especially the kind of formal Western food with five main courses, the amount of oil is staggering, and it may become a sex killer.

　　But before sex, eating some carbohydrates can help improve the quality of sex. Because it can quickly replenish energy and maintain a long-lasting erection. So, eat some toast or potatoes before sex. People who prefer meat can also eat animal liver, fish or shellfish in moderation, but avoid beef and pork that are high in fat and calories.

　　Bao Shentao suggested that Chinese people can choose shrimp, sea cucumber and other foods that can help increase sexual desire before sex. Foods that strengthen the spleen and kidneys, such as black fungus and yam, are also good choices. After eating, the body will be a little tired, which may affect the quality of sex. Therefore, it is recommended that you wait about one and a half hours after a meal before enjoying sex with your partner.

　　3. It is not advisable to have sex after drinking a lot of alcohol

　　Most women and some men will experience a decrease in sexual desire if they drink a lot of alcohol during a meal. Moreover, after drinking, people are in a state of short-term excitement, and they are prone to over-excited or rough and reckless behavior during sex. The accelerated pace and excessive concentration of energy can also easily lead to Premature ejaculation。

　　Alcohol affects the heart, liver, nerve Damage to multiple organs, coupled with high excitement of the nervous system during sex and widespread congestion of sexual organs, will aggravate organ damage.

　　Additionally, alcohol can cause sperm Abnormal development affects sperm vitality and morphology, which is detrimental to fertility.

　　What's more important is that having sex after a long period of drinking and eating will not only reduce the success rate and satisfaction of sexual life, but may also dampen the relationship between the couple and make the partner feel sexually tired.