Falling out of love is a way for men to grow psychologically

　　In youth, those flowers and those intoxicated faces, people in love are always persistent and fanatical about feelings. However, some people believe that falling out of love is a way for men to grow psychologically, and they encourage men to experience more women. Of course, this statement has long been criticized, but a man falling out of love does strengthen his psychological resilience.

　　According to Queen Mary University of London, "Breaking up affects both men and women psychologically. healthy Impact” research group, female Compare male Psychological problems such as anxiety are more likely to occur. The reason may be that women are more likely to feel a lack of security in money and property, while men are more concerned about whether they will be chained for life.

　　It's normal to feel depressed and depressed after a breakup, but women take much longer to recover from emotional damage than men, and women's mental health continues to deteriorate with more breakups. Men are just the opposite. Men who have experienced two or more breakups have excellent mental states and are even healthier than other men.

　　Men are more likely to be depressed immediately after a breakup

　　However, when it comes to the emotional reflection of a breakup, men have a different look. There is such a question, when the Ark of Love encounters an iceberg, who will handle it better? The answer is: women. Several studies have shown that men are more depressed, sad, and anxious after a breakup than women. Men should feel very strong, but in fact they are very fragile. Many men cannot handle the reasons for breakup well. For example:

　　1. Men hide their pain

　　When a boy is dumped, his first reaction is: I won't let her know how painful I am. How he did it: Hang out with a few friends. According to a survey by Men's Health Online, 26% of men will hold a dumped party and get drunk after a breakup, but this is only a minority. 36% of men feel they should see their new rights and thank the person who dumped them. In fact, both reactions are masks to hide their true feelings. It doesn't help sadness or anger at all. Men grieve over lost relationships all the time, even after their dumping party. And women will cry and tell the truth right after a breakup. Studies have found that when women face their failed relationships, they start out depressed but quickly recover. Many men want to suppress their emotions, but they cannot release their feelings.

　　2. Men have fewer friends

　　One of the reasons women recover faster than men after a breakup is because they have an amazing circle of friends. Research shows that men rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, while women like to turn to family and female friends as their safest refuge. Including her mother, sisters, friends, beauticians and drivers, no matter who the person was, the more she talked about it, the faster she recovered. Men, on the other hand, will act as if nothing happened about the breakup and are not emotionally trapped. Six months later, when a man is honest about his feelings, all he wants is to get back to that girl.

　　3. It is difficult for men to re-establish another relationship

　　After a breakup, boys are first excited to date other women. But after three, four, or dozens of days, they will realize that it will take a long time for them to feel as natural as their ex-girlfriend. A survey from Carnegie Mellon University in the United States showed that girls adapt better to the end of a relationship because they have considered the possibility of breaking up. However, the boys were not prepared. Emotional security can't be the only reason to be together, which makes him realize how lucky he is to have her, and at the same time, she's gone from him. When he called her drunk and admitted his feelings, it was too late.

　　4. Men regard relationships as games

　　The breakdown of many relationships is a knee-jerk reaction that men see as stagnation. They find it boring to go to the same restaurant, have sex with the same people over and over again. After breaking up, they will immediately discover that being single does not mean champagne and half-naked beauties. Even in exciting bars, they feel that the intimacy of the past is more nostalgic. Research shows that women are consistently better at social, sexual, and rational intimacy. They are often quicker than men to realize lasting relationships based on affection.

　　Male friends feel depressed when they break up. Although men feel very strong, they are actually very fragile. Women's performance is more obvious than that of men, but you are in excellent condition after a breakup, and your mental health is better than other men.