What to do if a man is sexually fatigued after sex

　　1: Warm-up imagination

　　Don't think of sex as something you do only when you go to bed. Warming up sexual imagination in your mind can give you the longest and most free foreplay. Compared with going into battle with a blank brain, a brain filled with various sexual information can obviously be stimulated and enter the state faster. Let your mind generate new ideas first, and your brain's quick tricks can make all the difference in what you do.

　　Warm-up imagination can be done any time you can, such as eating, walking, riding in a car, or even when working. The pictures that pass by in a few seconds will not affect anything. You can associate anything you see or think with sex. Of course, don't get carried away, and don't take too long. A few seconds or dozens of seconds is enough. The content of imagination does not need to be too clear. Ambiguity and vagueness are more suitable for warming up passion.

　　You can also warm up your brain during sex. First, reimagine your body. Instead of imagining what your legs or belly have become, imagine that your most sensitive point is beautiful and timeless, trembling beautifully and playing the most perfect note. If you imagine this mentally, the climax that comes at the end will be as beautiful and exciting as a real singing session. Another way to warm up your brain is to metaphorically imagine the physical activity you are doing. For example, if he is tapping your body gently, you can imagine it as raindrops, cat footsteps, ticking bells, etc. Although these imaginations have nothing to do with sex, they can train your mind to more easily trigger physical reactions.

　　2: Breathe in a coordinated manner

　　Maybe you have never thought that the most ordinary breathing is also related to the quality of sex. In fact, when making love, it is very important whether the two people's breathing is coordinated. If you can "breathe the same breath", you will also be able to "share happiness".

　　A simple way to achieve consistent breathing is: you lie on your sides together, you in front and him behind. He hugs you from behind and puts his hands on your chest so that he can feel your breathing. Then, you take a long, deep breath and he follows your breathing. As your breathing becomes more consistent, you will feel a powerful loving connection. Doing this may seem like a ritual that is too serious, but it can quickly bring you into a feeling of heart-to-heart connection and intimacy. This extraordinary sense of intimacy will create a special sexual "aura" that allows you to sink into selfless sexual passion together.

　　Another consistent breathing pose is a little more complicated. You and him sit face to face on the bed, your legs wrapped around each other, his right hand on your heart, your right hand on his heart, your left hands on each other's right, then look at each other and start breathing together. Just gaze, breathe, gaze, breathe and let your love for each other come through Eye and hands flowing to the soul. Let your soul see his soul, and let his see yours. If you persist like this for a while, you will find that each other's face has changed, becoming gentle, happy, and at the same time containing a kind of passion that is waiting to explode.

　　While trying the above two tricks to let couples "change their old love into a new look", you can also use some tricks that are simple and less labor-intensive.

　　Open up new avenues for sex in novels. Most women like to read novels, and writers usually have rich imaginations. Some passages describing sex may contain unexpected and amazing ways of having sex. This must be a brand new method that can quickly change your sex life.

　　After trying a sex trick, write down your excitement and unusually pleasurable feelings on a note, beginning with "Dear," followed by his name, slip it into his pocket in the morning, and let him go to work with last night's results. When he sees this note, he wonders: What will happen next time? This is certainly a wonderful sexual reminder.

　　Don't rush out of the bathroom after you shower. Instead, take the time to carefully apply moisturizer to every inch of your skin. This kind of self-service massage will suddenly increase your sexual desire. When you go to bed, you will naturally be very eager for his caress. He will be surprised how you are so easily aroused today, so that the two of you can enjoy the beauty of sex together during the subsequent sex.

　　How to adjust after suffering from "sexual fatigue"

　　Many couples who were originally living harmoniously fell into the predicament of "sexual fatigue" after a few years and found it difficult to regain the joy of the past. There are many reasons here. Familiarity with your lover's body, tense pace of life, heavy work pressure and family burdens will all weaken the strong sexual desire in adolescence.

　　How to avoid "sexual fatigue" between couples, get out of the sexual predicament, and regain the old passion between husband and wife? In addition to the two great tips and small tips in this article, you must also do the following:

　　There is no set standard for the number of times you should have sex. For some couples, having sex once a month is more effective and both parties are satisfied, while others may only feel satisfied after having sex four or five times a week. These are individual differences and cannot be enforced. As long as both parties meet each other sincerely and express their feelings clearly, they will be in harmony and will not be suspicious of each other, otherwise a vicious circle will be formed.

　　Sensual contact does not necessarily mean sex. Men generally believe that sexual contact must include sexual intercourse, which is wrong. Sex life includes many aspects, and it does not necessarily have to be accompanied by the excitement of sexual intercourse every time. Women know best the fact that a certain sense of thoughtfulness is enough. That is to say, when she takes the initiative to hug you, she doesn't necessarily ask you to "really do it". Maybe she just wants to find a warm feeling.

　　Do it in a planned way. Make love should also be planned, only in this way can there be tacit cooperation between lovers. In fact, it is also a very sensual enjoyment for two people to make a "sex life plan". For example, one man complained: “She usually likes to have sex very late at night, when I can’t even muster the energy. ”As a result, "sex" was not at the right time, and they fell asleep unhappy with each other. It can be seen that setting a "plan" is very important.