How to control the frequency of sex during the wedding period

  Generally speaking, the frequency of sexual intercourse varies with race, region, social and cultural background, as well as personal age, healthy It varies depending on the situation and mental state. Some newlyweds have sex almost every day during their honeymoon. On the wedding night, they have sex 4-5 times in a row, and they even have sex behind closed doors during the day. However, it should be moderated and not excessive.

  According to some surveys, the number of men's sexual intercourse generally decreases with age. During the period of 22-25 years old, the number of sexual intercourse usually decreases three times a week.； 32-35 years old, 2 times a week ； At 41-45 years old, reduce to once a week. Of course, this is just an average. Each age group varies greatly, with some having it several times a day and others as little as once a month. Therefore, we cannot judge whether sexual intercourse is moderate based on the frequency of sexual intercourse alone.

  The frequency of sexual life, how many times is appropriate, and the amount of sexual activity is different for each person. If it is purely from a physiological point of view, then no matter whether you are a man or a woman, no matter your age, as long as the sexual excitement is not forced and there is no uncomfortable feeling, then you can have sex without having to consider how long it has been since the last time.

  The so-called reluctant, female Middle means submitting to the sexual demands of a man； exist male The middle part is: I don't really want to have sex, but I rely on reading pornographic books or videos to "stimulate" myself, and even forcefully masturbate in order to get involved in sex. This is quite harmful. Because every time men ejaculation In the future, there will be no sexual response for a short or long period of time. It is a natural protection for men. If you force yourself to engage in sexual life at this time, it is equivalent to destroying your own refractory period protection, which is of course harmful to the body.

  Many infertile patients are often at a loss when it comes to controlling the frequency of sexual life, because some doctors allow them to have more sexual life, while other doctors restrict it. What can be done more effectively?

  The objective standard to measure whether the frequency of sexual life is appropriate is whether you are full of energy and happy in body and mind the next morning. If the following conditions occur on the second day or within a few days after sexual intercourse, and no other reasons can be found, it can be considered excessive, and you should exercise restraint and appropriately extend the interval between sexual intercourse.

  My whole body was weak, my waist was sore and my legs were weak, I was too lazy to move, I was top-heavy, I was dizzy, and my eyes were filled with stars.

  Loss of appetite, no desire to eat, poor appetite, and mild nausea.

  His face was pale, his eyes were dull, his expression was haggard, and his body was thin.

  Shortness of breath, heartbeat, occasional sweating, and frequent insomnia Dream , difficult to fall asleep.

  Mental fatigue, malaise, listlessness, easy to feel tired at work, lack of concentration in study, and drowsiness.

  If the above situation occurs, it should be corrected in time and the frequency of sexual life should be reduced. In severe cases, sexual life should be suspended for a period of time. However, there is no need to worry too much about this, because: Generally, excessive sexual life will not cause any serious harm to health as long as you temporarily stop sexual life for a period of time, pay attention to rest, and strengthen nutrition. Of course, if you continue to indulge yourself, the consequences will be bad.

  It is worth mentioning that men are more likely to indulge themselves and have sex too frequently. In the eyes of some men, the more sexual intercourse, the more powerful and dignified a man is. ； Perhaps, they are not clearly aware of this, but they just feel that they should fully satisfy their wives' sexual requirements. Therefore, after they have obtained pleasure from sexual life, they will continue to strengthen their sexual consciousness, attempt to achieve another erection in the shortest possible time, and use the power of will to support their exhausted body for sexual life. This is undoubtedly very harmful to physical and mental health.