Men who love watching porn can’t afford to get hurt

　　Many film and television works will show more or less intimate scenes of male and female actors, which is a beautiful display of love. But there is a kind of movie that shows naked sex directly in front of you the moment you press the start button, and it continues throughout the movie. This is the so-called pornographic film.

　　According to Taiwan's "Health" magazine, Dai Junnan, president of Taiwan's Yuoming Pastoral Psychology Institute, pointed out that, generally speaking, male I prefer to watch pornographic films, pornographic books, or visit similar websites. Usually, this kind of behavior will gradually decrease with age and experience, but some people not only do not curb it, but intensify it. If this continues, it may threaten normal sexual life and even reduce sexual desire.

　　You know, the content of porn movies is usually exaggerated, as if everyone female Sexual stimulation will arouse excitement, and every man is very persistent, which can easily lead to misconceptions. In addition, addiction to porn can also affect a man's sexual performance. Because the wife may not be as hot and sexy as the heroines in the pornographic films. After watching them for a long time, they will become less and less interested in their wives. In severe cases, they may not be able to achieve an erection. “Therefore, I often remind men that there is a huge gap between pornographic films and real life. It is best not to watch them, or to watch them occasionally, but as long as they do not affect their lives. If the wife finds that her husband shows signs of addiction, such as watching it several times a day, which affects normal life, work, interpersonal relationships, and the relationship between husband and wife, she is sick and abnormal, and she needs to find a way to help him get rid of his addiction. ”Dai Junnan said.

　　The wife can ask her husband in a gentler manner: "I'm very curious about what it feels like to watch porn. ”If the husband is willing to express his true feelings, the wife can express her position appropriately, for example, "Look at this, it makes me feel very uncomfortable, and I feel inferior to those women. ”But don’t make too many comments, otherwise it will offend the other person. The wife should be patient, just like correcting the child's behavior, persist but don't get angry, because when she gets angry and quarrels, the husband will tend to focus on dealing with his wife's emotions. Usually, mature and sensible men will slowly change because of this, but if the situation still does not change, or if the husband is really addicted to it, he may wish to seek help from a professional psychologist.